2016 First Post
Happy new year!
First of all, im planning to make a difference for my 20 year old life
And im already facing new challenges.
I noticed that you really really can't put expectations on a person.
Those who you think may help you, even you have known that person for a very very long time,
Will not actually always be there when you need them.
You have to respect that they have a life,you have to respect their wishes and their boundaries, you know that person after all.
But undeniably, the feeling sometimes sucks,
I will be a hypocrite to say that Im that noble and I was always there for my friends,
Thats why i said that to avoid being a spiteful person you need to at least respect your friends from heart.
Though it does not help when a person you barely know can give you that astounding amount of trust.
They were there to support me rather than those that I expected to be.
Again not to diss anyone but that is the reality that happens sometimes.
But fairly you can't pass judgement on just one event.
I guess im just not mature enough yet to process these conflicting thoughts.
But really, i still have a negative perception regarding this issue.
I have to figure it out and get over it.
No expectations! You're already making your life harder than it is
First of all, im planning to make a difference for my 20 year old life
And im already facing new challenges.
I noticed that you really really can't put expectations on a person.
Those who you think may help you, even you have known that person for a very very long time,
Will not actually always be there when you need them.
You have to respect that they have a life,you have to respect their wishes and their boundaries, you know that person after all.
But undeniably, the feeling sometimes sucks,
I will be a hypocrite to say that Im that noble and I was always there for my friends,
Thats why i said that to avoid being a spiteful person you need to at least respect your friends from heart.
Though it does not help when a person you barely know can give you that astounding amount of trust.
They were there to support me rather than those that I expected to be.
Again not to diss anyone but that is the reality that happens sometimes.
But fairly you can't pass judgement on just one event.
I guess im just not mature enough yet to process these conflicting thoughts.
But really, i still have a negative perception regarding this issue.
I have to figure it out and get over it.
No expectations! You're already making your life harder than it is
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